A remarkable fostering couple from Maple Cross are helping Hertfordshire County Council find families for children and teenagers taken into care.
Kirsty and Mark Watson have welcomed 25 children into their home in the last 14 years and have spoken out about their experiences in the hope of encouraging others to become one of 60 caring families needed each year.
The pair first considered fostering when they thought they were unable to conceive children of their own.
But even after Kirsty gave birth to a son and daughter, Stephen, 19, and Stacey, 17, they still believed they could offer other youngsters a better start in life.
Kirsty, 45, said: “My husband and I wanted to give less fortunate children their childhood back. A lot of kids who get taken into care have been forced to grow up far too quickly because of their previous circumstances.”
The couple described how many youngsters came to live with them lacking in confidence and self-esteem, often blaming themselves for their situation.
She said: “The most satisfying thing is helping someone put their life back on track. Watching them learn to smile and laugh again is so important and something very difficult to put into words.”
Kirsty and Mark, who own the Future Building construction company, have regularly looked after ten to 18-year-olds, taking in up to four at a time where siblings have been involved.
The Watsons are looking to break down the common misperceptions which still surround fostering – for example, the belief it is something only considered by couples who cannot conceive or that it might disrupt their existing family’s dynamic.
Kirsty, who runs Cutaway hairdressers, said: “Children and teenagers add so much life and vitality to a house. My own two children have played a crucial part in welcoming others into our home and I don’t see why less fortunate children shouldn’t benefit from a having a close family.”
Kirsty accepts fostering may initially seem like a daunting prospect, but the extensive training provided and the regular support visits from social workers soon eased any anxieties she had.
She said: “The social services department are available 24 hours a day. Throughout the selection process they make sure you are a suitable match and if you have a preference for fostering teenagers or young children, they can accommodate you.”
Hertfordshire County Council is currently searching for families like the Watsons, who are willing to welcome young children and teenagers into safe and loving homes.
Foster families are given full training and support, plus a weekly allowance of up to £383 per child.
For more information, telephone 0800 9170925 or visit www.hertsdirect.org/fostering.
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